Sex therapist, Adunni has shared an interesting piece on Instagram explaining why Nigerians are afraid of having proper sex.
See her full post below…
Nigerians are afraid of having proper sex, in my Scope of work as a Sex therapist, I see these things daily and I’m scared for the future… why is it hard for Nigerian men to please their women? Why can’t you eat your wife out and stuff, why do women think for them to be wife materials you shouldn’t fuck your husband real good, why would you think to give your husband a mind blowing blowjob followed by a badtass doggie will not make u a wife material.
The men are also guilty of this hence they wife the lady who isn’t sexually satisfying and keep numerous girl friends then the moment u both are Comfortably married, the man moves on to start having numerous girls friends then years down the line the woman realises how sexually frustrated she is and might start having flings too.
In this case i gotta agree with marrying your friend though because if you guys can be plain with one another and honest about sexual wants and needs then your relationship will blossom.